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BigDemVoter

(4,161 posts)
Thu May 2, 2024, 01:49 PM May 2

Cher in relationshiop with a man 39 years her junior. . . .

I normally don't give 2 flips about what celebrities are doing, but this just illustrates how sexist things are when a WOMAN dates a younger man.

We see Kevin Costner & Harrison Ford with younger women, and there is no peep made. But when it's the other way around, there is a "public backlash."

Ridiculous.

https://www.salon.com/2024/05/02/cher-dates-younger-men-older-men/

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Cher in relationshiop with a man 39 years her junior. . . . (Original Post) BigDemVoter May 2 OP
I hope Cher and this man are HAPPY. CaliforniaPeggy May 2 #1
Dick Van Dyke is 46 years older than his wife and nary a peep. nt Phoenix61 May 2 #2
They seem very happy, too. shrike3 May 2 #3
Tony Randall married someone 50 years younger! unblock May 2 #9
I saw an interview with her. shrike3 May 2 #16
Tony Randall's first wife died without having kids. pfitz59 May 3 #51
"She's the best wife" Mosby May 2 #12
He is extremely active PatSeg May 2 #22
He is pretty amazing. I was worried when he was Phoenix61 May 2 #35
The last I saw, he loves to dance PatSeg May 2 #40
Dancing is a wonderful way to live a long life. Phoenix61 May 2 #42
Oh yes PatSeg May 2 #45
Yes! Body, mind, heart and soul. nt Phoenix61 May 3 #48
She is the best wife of the two he married? Emile May 2 #26
I dont think he meant that Mosby May 2 #37
Haven't kept up with him have you. Phoenix61 May 2 #34
I didn't even know about that. Which I guess illustrates the point the OP was making. Crunchy Frog May 2 #31
You. Go. Girl. CincyDem May 2 #4
I love Cher! Years ago I read she had awesome yard sales. CrispyQ May 2 #17
no kidding. i like em young myself. mopinko May 2 #23
Yeah, my first thought was 'good for her.' Haggard Celine May 2 #27
I know of nothing mean or hurtful that Cher has ever done. lindysalsagal May 2 #5
She now has a number one hit in each of *7* decades unblock May 2 #7
She seems like a strong woman with a good heart. That appeals to many spooky3 May 3 #52
Rock on Cher dlk May 2 #6
Where's the backlash? brooklynite May 2 #8
The article stated there was a "public backlash." BigDemVoter May 2 #13
...and then didn't present evidence of any. brooklynite May 2 #14
I'm 80. My wife is 85. Married for 44 years. Ping Tung May 2 #10
Good fo her Srkdqltr May 2 #11
Exactly. Good for her. SamKnause May 2 #15
My thoughts exactly. infullview May 2 #29
leo is taking all the heat for celebrity men catsudon May 2 #18
On the other hand, you get articles like "34 Celebrity Men who Date Younger Women" muriel_volestrangler May 2 #19
Penny Marshall and Carrie Fisher had this conversation NanaCat May 2 #20
The only reason anyone cares is because EllieBC May 2 #21
I don't think anyone actually cares about this. BlueTsunami2018 May 2 #24
Good for her!! Fla Dem May 2 #25
Yes. If she were a man it would barely register, if at all. Crunchy Frog May 2 #28
I think it barely registers now womanofthehills May 2 #47
He's a lucky man. LakeArenal May 2 #30
I hope they're happy. David__77 May 2 #32
"We see Kevin Costner & Harrison Ford with younger women, and there is no peep made." Sympthsical May 2 #33
Well... Mike Nelson May 2 #36
I got you, babe --all like new again DoBW May 2 #38
FYI... Harrison Ford and Calista Flokhart have 22 year age gap. Nowhere near Cher and her boyfriend. honest.abe May 2 #39
I have a friend who's 65...her husband is 90. brooklynite May 2 #41
Have liked and respected Cher since the Sonny and Cher Show. PufPuf23 May 2 #43
Link to PIcs.. Interesting.. TY Cha May 2 #44
Damn Girl !! SalviaBlue May 2 #46
you GO Girl!!!! lol DemocraticPatriot May 3 #49
kick BlueWaveNeverEnd May 3 #50

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,878 posts)
1. I hope Cher and this man are HAPPY.
Thu May 2, 2024, 01:51 PM
May 2

Anyone who objects to this situation can pound sand.

Love is more important than caring who the lovers are.

unblock

(52,549 posts)
9. Tony Randall married someone 50 years younger!
Thu May 2, 2024, 02:08 PM
May 2
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Randall

Had 2 kids and died when the older child was 7.

That one did generate some headlines and backlash, but more because of having kids at that age than just because 75-25 years old age difference at the time of their wedding.

shrike3

(3,923 posts)
16. I saw an interview with her.
Thu May 2, 2024, 03:13 PM
May 2

She seemed very nice. Hardly a gold digger. She said his children are a comfort to her because she sees so much of him in them.

I thought it was none of my business. It's none of my business who anyone marries or doesn't marry.

https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a1123/tony-randall-wife/

pfitz59

(10,430 posts)
51. Tony Randall's first wife died without having kids.
Fri May 3, 2024, 05:17 AM
May 3

he married again after she died. He provided well for his second wife and children.

Phoenix61

(17,031 posts)
35. He is pretty amazing. I was worried when he was
Thu May 2, 2024, 06:52 PM
May 2

in that car accident but it hasn’t seemed to slow him down.

PatSeg

(47,791 posts)
40. The last I saw, he loves to dance
Thu May 2, 2024, 10:00 PM
May 2

and dances frequently. That was a couple of years ago though. I feel so old in comparison and he's much older than I am.

Phoenix61

(17,031 posts)
42. Dancing is a wonderful way to live a long life.
Thu May 2, 2024, 10:13 PM
May 2

Gene Kelley was 83 when he died. Fred Astaire was 88.

Mosby

(16,438 posts)
37. I dont think he meant that
Thu May 2, 2024, 07:03 PM
May 2

After reading more about it, but it's a weird way to talk about your wife.

Phoenix61

(17,031 posts)
34. Haven't kept up with him have you.
Thu May 2, 2024, 06:51 PM
May 2

He’s still performing and had a special on CBS, “98 Years of Magic” just last year.

CrispyQ

(36,600 posts)
17. I love Cher! Years ago I read she had awesome yard sales.
Thu May 2, 2024, 03:14 PM
May 2

It sounds just like the kind of thing she would do!

Haggard Celine

(16,869 posts)
27. Yeah, my first thought was 'good for her.'
Thu May 2, 2024, 05:57 PM
May 2

These people are just jealous of her. Let Cher and her mate alone so they can enjoy each other's company and share a happy life together.

lindysalsagal

(20,816 posts)
5. I know of nothing mean or hurtful that Cher has ever done.
Thu May 2, 2024, 01:53 PM
May 2

I admire that she admits to being dyslexic. She supported her trans son. Never been big on her extra-vulgar outfits, and she's not the greatest singer, ever. But I have to admire her keeping her nose clean in a filthy business.

spooky3

(34,552 posts)
52. She seems like a strong woman with a good heart. That appeals to many
Fri May 3, 2024, 06:34 AM
May 3

People including younger men. I hope they’ll be happy the rest of her years.

BigDemVoter

(4,161 posts)
13. The article stated there was a "public backlash."
Thu May 2, 2024, 02:55 PM
May 2

But I have also noted that even if there is not a real backlash, it is treated as something funny as in comedy, whereas if it's a man with a younger woman, it's treated as something totally normal.

brooklynite

(95,121 posts)
14. ...and then didn't present evidence of any.
Thu May 2, 2024, 02:59 PM
May 2

As far as I'm aware both Harrison Ford and Cher stories are "Hollywood Scandal" gossip and nothing more. I'm not aware of any variations in the coverage.

catsudon

(857 posts)
18. leo is taking all the heat for celebrity men
Thu May 2, 2024, 03:23 PM
May 2

i wouldn't put it pass leo if he tried to date greta.

cher is great, this is an example of "do you believe in love after love", love that song.

NanaCat

(1,650 posts)
20. Penny Marshall and Carrie Fisher had this conversation
Thu May 2, 2024, 03:31 PM
May 2

Way back in a 1991 or 1992 interview. They were lamenting how men were constantly cradle-robbing, but when a woman like Cher (the example they used!) went for a younger man, then people got all up in arms, describing the male as if he were some kind of sex slave, 'have him bathed and brought to my tent.' The double standard on this is quite annoying.

I'm married to someone 13 years my junior, and people are always making catty remarks about it. They wouldn't even notice if my husband were that much older than I am.

EllieBC

(3,054 posts)
21. The only reason anyone cares is because
Thu May 2, 2024, 03:32 PM
May 2

Cher is a woman.

Countless male celebs screw around for decades and then marry much younger women when they decide to “settle down.” Leonardo, Chris Evans, Harrison Ford….

Women are treated as useless and washed up after 30-35. That’s why a woman expressing that she still has it, like Cher, is noteworthy. People don’t like thinking older women are still sexual beings.

It’s pretty nasty but standard treatment of women.

BlueTsunami2018

(3,519 posts)
24. I don't think anyone actually cares about this.
Thu May 2, 2024, 04:03 PM
May 2

She’s been dating younger forever and good for her.

I don’t care who does what as long they’re all adults.

Sympthsical

(9,206 posts)
33. "We see Kevin Costner & Harrison Ford with younger women, and there is no peep made."
Thu May 2, 2024, 06:14 PM
May 2

At least 30% of the Internet is non-stop commentary on Leonardo DiCaprio and his dating choices.

I think Cher's getting attention because she made public comments about it. If a 60 year old man in Hollywood gave an interview talking about how much better he liked dating a 20 year old, you don't think there'd be a reaction? In this day and age?

More power to Cher. Wherever consenting adults find their happiness is neat-o.

But it's 2024. People talk about age gaps with men all the time. Hell, Chris Evans just married someone sixteen years younger and there was . . . a lot of commentary about that one. A lot of eyebrows have been raised about Henry Cavill's habits as well.

But Cher is iconic, and she said this on daytime television. Of course people will talk about it. I don't think anyone truly cares though. Just idle fodder.

Mike Nelson

(9,995 posts)
36. Well...
Thu May 2, 2024, 07:00 PM
May 2

... I like her and don't really care about her dates. She's smart, attractive, friendly, wealthy... Cher has worked hard and had an amazingly full life... she can do what she wants.

honest.abe

(8,699 posts)
39. FYI... Harrison Ford and Calista Flokhart have 22 year age gap. Nowhere near Cher and her boyfriend.
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:14 PM
May 2

However Im not criticizing Cher at all. Its entirely up to her and her boyfriends.

DemocraticPatriot

(4,552 posts)
49. you GO Girl!!!! lol
Fri May 3, 2024, 12:26 AM
May 3

Everyone should be free to find love where they find it,
regardless of sex or age.....

Obviously she has something going for her

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